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Dating Pof
First person I went out had a lot of nice qualities and it seemed like we
would be a good match. Talked a couple o' times, went out to dinner once, hung
out at her place and watched one of her movies (she was actress) and
then...poof...never heard from her again. Still don't know what happened to her,
or what I did to run her off.
Second person I had initiated contact with, I sw her picture and read her
profile and was blown away, she was a knockout, had a nice personality, great
sense of humor etc. She was the kind of girl I would love to fall hard for. So
we met on a Thursday and went walking, we actually dated the next night and went
out to dinner and all, things seemed to go pretty well but the next day the
phone didn't ring or anything. My calls were unreturned/unanswered so I sent her
a nice email saying I really enjoyed our date, I was thinking about her and how
much fun I had being around her etc.
I get a response the following morning saying she's going back to her ex who
she dumped a month ago, they're going to try and work things out etc etc. She
then proceeds to tell me how awesome I am and cute and funny and blah blah blah,
so I send her a response saying "I must not be all that great if you're going
back to your ex etc." so we end up staying friends after that and she assures me
I'm all the things she said etc. Well a few days later she wants to go out
again, even wants me to pick her up! Just out of the blue, out of nowhere.."
let's go do something".
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So we end up going out and shooting some games of pool and again she has a
blast, laughing all over the place, acting like she's interested in me etc. but
then the weekend comes and no phone call, no email, no cointact
whatsoever....until Monday rolls around and she's like "want to go walking
again?" By now I'm starting to think" what happened this weekend?" what's going
on? etc.
so I tell her I need to get some studying done, not tonight. So then she
starts trying to make me feel guilty and she's like "oh well, guess I'll have to
find someone else to go walking then"...etc. so that shocked me a bit, and I
won't ever be calling her back as I'm not the one who enjoys being someone's
crutch.
There was one other girl who i also met, we only got as far as phone calls as
every time I tried to bring up meeting in person, she'd make up some excuse or
something. We'd talk a long time, have a lot to talk about even, but she ust
wasn't willing to take the time in her own words "to build any relationships
right now, I don't want to have to work on making new frineds".........yeesh.
So that leaves me 0-3 so far, I guess it's just not my time yet. I tell you
though, I stay positive, I'm trying to focus on other things to try amd make
things less painful to handle, but it sure would be nice if these girls could
have communicated better instead of just playing games etc. I've had a rough
time lately not erupting in aggravation and frustration with some of this mess,
but I know I deserve better and someday it will all work itself out
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